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This world was never meant for one as beautiful as you………









Mike’s life started as a wonderful dream on March 4, 1984 and ended in a horrible nightmare on May 27, 2005.  It was the greatest roller coaster ride of all time.







One fall day in 1983, I stopped to visit my parents and brother Lonnie.  My mom, Lonnie and I were sitting in the living room when he popped up with….Mom’s pregnant…    I said WHAT ????  I was 22 and Lonnie was 15..he was horrified  LOL  I was a little worried…42 was so old to have a baby !  (hahaha  that doesn’t seem old at all now)  Very happy though….a few of my friends were having babies at that time and it seemed cool.

Throughout Mom’s pregnancy, we knew this was going to be a special child..he was sooo active, I’m surprised she ever got any rest.  When we found it was going to be a boy, Lonnie was much happier 
J  We decided to name him Michael and his nickname would be Mickey.  Well, he came out and he was just Michael, the nickname just didn’t fit.  He was stubborn from the start…a month overdue and had to be induced to join us.

Mike loved to party and his social life was an important part of his life.  Some would say the most important and it was that for awhile  J  Until Andrea came along.  When they found out that she was pregnant, it was the single happiest day of his life.  He wanted a baby so much and was almost desperate to have one.  When he discovered it was a boy, he couldn’t have been happier.  They chose the name Anthony Michael and he went right out to get that tattooed on him.  I kept telling him, “What if it’s wrong and it’s a girl”, but he was positive J  (I was very thankful when Anthony did come out with the proper equipment)  He would have made a great and loving father and Anthony will know that.

Mike’s life was basically full and happy.  It wasn’t perfect, but we have many more happy memories than bad.  Looking back, mom and I figure we knew he wasn’t meant to be in our lives forever.  It doesn’t make it any easier and I don’t see it getting easier any time soon.  I have a line from a song running through my head….












This world was never meant for one as beautiful as you………









 

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Tributes and Condolences
<3  / Alena Kelly (Friend)
Can't believe it's been so long. I hope you and Cooper are resting in peace.
Happy Birthday   / Diana Dolmes (Mom)
Happy Birthday. I love you and miss you. Can't believe you would be 27 now. Keep watching over your little boy Anthony. You're doing a great job.  He is the image of you. Love Mom
Birthday  / Sis
Is Happy Birthday appropriate ?? Well it's your 27th birthday and I can't imagine what you'd be like now.    When I do I imagine that you wouldnt' still be an asshole :D    Love you no matter what and I'll see you when I...  Continue >>
Almost 5 years   / Tashina (My Cuz )
Wow Cant Believe Its Almost Been 5 Years Since You Have Been Gone!!! Its Hard Not Having You Here!!! I Really Miss You Like Crazy!!! I Really Could Use Your Help Right Now. Im Havin Boy Problems As You Know Lol. Im Datin This One Guy But Im Fallin Fo...  Continue >>
Happy Birthday   / Sis
So, I'm late as usual :)   We're still having your birthday party..taco salad and chocolate cake.  I just miss you so much...I still expect the phone to ring at 4 in the morning or for you to come bouncing up the steps. Your boy is gr...  Continue >>
Miss you tons!!!!  / Tashina Horton (cousins)    Read >>
Fatherless Day  / Sis     Read >>
Fly high you too  / Elaine     Read >>
Hi! / Dana     Read >>
Birthday Party  / Sis     Read >>
Happty 23rd Birthday  / Sis     Read >>
"HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY"  / Johnette Moninger (Angel Friend )    Read >>
"MERRY CHRISTMAS"  / Johnette Moninger (Friend)    Read >>
Well... / Sis     Read >>
hey mike  / Alena Kelly (Friend)    Read >>
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His legacy
Please Don't  


Please don't ask me if I am over it yet.
I'll never be over it  


Please, don't tell me he is in a better place.
He isn't here with me.  


Please, don't say at least he isn't suffering.
I haven't come to terms with why he had to suffer at all.

Please, don't tell me you know how I feel.
Unless you have lost a child.


Please, don't ask me if I feel better.
Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up.

Please, don't tell me at least you had him for 21 years.
What year would you choose to have your child die?


Please, don't tell me that God never gives us more then we can bear.
Please, just say you are sorry.


Please, just say you remember my child, if you do.
Please, let me talk about my child.
Please, mention my child's name.
Please, just let me cry. 

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